What To Do When You Feel Betrayed

In relationships, people sometimes feel that they have been betrayed by the people whom they trust the most. When betrayal happens, it can be devastating to the person who gave his or her undoubtful trust. 

To recover from this betrayal, try to find out the reasons why for the betrayal. There are various reasons why people betray their partners or associates. Some involve dissatisfaction to jealousy and because of disloyalty. 

If you were betrayed by an associate or a co-worker, learn to let it go and move on. There are other associates that you can learn to build better relationships with and they might be better for you and the business that you are in. You will have an opportunity to build a new and more fulfilling relationship with these individuals, instead of dwelling on the issue of betrayal by your associate or co-worker. Keep working to make yourself better at learning more and becoming better at what you do and your job. The betrayal is a sign that this person is not someone who values your relationship. Try to build relationships with the other people whom you can build better relationships with or who are more trustworthy instead of dwelling on the unpleasant feeling of being betrayed.

If you were betrayed by your partner, lover, or spouse, try to find out the reason why he or she has betrayed you. Once you have found out, evaluate the reason and see if you have contributed to this reason. If you have, that the betrayal was caused by reasons that you may have caused that resulted in the betrayal. Learn to forgive and try to move on. Give yourself some peace of mind and leave the event in the past. We do all have our faults but we can only move on with our life if we are not holding heavy grudges in our psyche or hearts. Holding grudges can only hurt us even more. So, think of happy thoughts instead and enjoy life with the people who care and love you. Spend time with the people who care for you and the feeling of being betrayed by the person who betrayed you might be eased in some way.

If you were betrayed by a trusted friend, sibling or relative, you might think that it is very difficult to get over. These people are ones whom we consider as our blood or non-blood brothers and sisters. When you have cared for each other for several years, you may feel hurt when some or one of them betrays us. The feeling will tend to linger and the thought may feel devastating for some. Learn to forgive and move on. There are other people who care for you, perhaps, in greater ways, like perhaps your other siblings and relatives. You can confide in them, and they might be able to ease the feeling and help make you feel better. They even might be able to help you better in ways than the other could.

When a trusted confidant betrays you, it is perhaps one of the worst things that could happen. When it does, you can choose to end the relationship and move on with your life. It is obvious that this person is someone whom you cannot trust. So, it is best to get on with your life, have a choice to end your relationship with them, find someone else whom you can truly trust or make an agreement with them that will settle matters or business that you have with them. Be optimistic when someone leaves you in order to pursue other things. For example, people leave their jobs or move to other companies because of various reasons. Some may be struggling with family issues or need to settle things that we do not know of. We simply have to think positively about the situation and make the best out of what we have. Always attract positive energies and be optimistic that you will get a confidant whom you can truly trust.

There are some reasons why some people betray us. Some because they are dissatisfied with the way things are. Some are not happy about the conditions that they are in and some are simply not interested or happy in the situation that they are in. When someone breaks our trust, it should be a lesson to learn and to remember. Forgiving and forgetting may not be easy because of the damage that it may have caused. But you can always, try to let go of the feeling so that you will feel better. Put your trust in someone or to the people who care and understand you. Give your other relationships a chance instead of dwelling on the betrayal. There are more things to do, more beautiful memories to experience with people who value what you put in the relationship they have with you and learn to treasure those.

Have a wonderful day.