What Some People Do When They Lose the People They Deeply Love

When we lose people we love, there are many things that we may feel and do because of the loss. These are some of the things that people do when they lose someone they love.

In our towns, localities or communities, there are times when deaths happen because of various things. These may either be because of natural disasters, wars, plagues and many other things, with this we sometimes lose people whom we love. When they are gone, we can still reminisce the time that we had with them. Remember the lessons they have taught us, and they will always be in our memories or our hearts. And they will always be remembered. It is deeply a sad thing to remember how they have gone and passed but their spirits will always be with us. Like the warmth of the breeze, the coolness of the air, the freezing cold weather or the rain that seems to be like the cry of a thousand souls. 

Their laughter and chuckles will be in our minds and their caring gestures will remain with us, in our memories and our psyche as we trek the world. Some people even feel stronger when their loved ones have gone and passed, because they feel more confident with the knowledge that had been passed on to them by the people who have raised them and cared for them. Some feel more confident, wiser and fearless. They are able to accomplish some of their goals because of the inspiration they get from the loss and work at trying to be better at what they do, while others do the things that are important to them. 

There are some who fall helpless and fall into a deep depression or do things that may not be beneficial for their health, well-being, family, welfare or they fall ill because of deep sadness and grief. However, if a community or living relatives will try their best to care for those who fall into this trap, they can still live and perhaps recover from the loss that they have experienced. 

However, some who have committed criminal offences (maybe because of vengeance or other intentions) end up in jail and fall deeper into a much difficult challenge. They become exposed to people whom they have not encountered before who may have the same story as them. They then sometimes form friendships with their inmates or make enemies at times. Once, they do, some have a tendency to either go back to living a good civilian life, plan their future once they are out of jail, while some simply eat and sleep to let each day pass and simply think about how the people they love are.

Loneliness happens deeply in the walls of a correction or rehabilitation facility and once it does, sometimes chronic depression could set in, especially when there is no activity or no mental stimulation at all. However, there are some who survive because of their strong will to survive and because they may still have plans to see their loved ones and be with them once they get out of the facility.

There are others who engage in productive activities than instead of dwelling on the thought of death, go on with their lives, move on and think that it was just any other day. They continue doing business as usual, continue with whatever their plans are, and have a strong mindset that there will still be another day to live. They continue to do their usual routine while others have the traumatic scars in their minds and psyche lingering with them, especially, in the case of wars. 

As humans, we grieve as we lose people we love, but we also have that spirit of living our lives to continue caring for the people whom we care for and are still alive with us. It is indeed a very depressing event when the people we love pass away or leave us. However, it is in our genes to survive and try to compose ourselves and go on for the ones who still need us. They may either be our children, siblings, relatives or friends. We sometimes simply need to do our best to make things work out for the people we still have with us.

Have a lovely day or night.