What Happens When A Partner Cheats On Their Partner And Things That They Can Do To Resolve The Problem

 According to medical studies, it has been found out that there are many relationships between common friends that result in extra-marital affairs or betrayal within their circle. However, reactions to how these are resolved vary from one relationship to another. This is a very sensitive situation in today's busy world. 

Affairs may happen when a partner becomes lonely when their partner is away. Some partners also commit extra-marital affairs because of various reasons. Some try to get even with their partner or maybe just got forced into the affair due to peer pressure and sheer hatred because of jealousy at that moment. They may also happen as a result of vulnerability either because of financial reasons, feeling of isolation or feelings of loneliness.

Sometimes threats do happen as well between the cheating party and their jealous spouse who probably have had an affair with another person as well. This is especially true for women. Especially if the spouse, who is threatening is a man, who has the power to hurt the woman's lover or the woman, their child and relatives if they have any. Otherwise, a powerful woman can also threaten their husband and have them investigated and brought to court for bigamy, adultery or worse have them haunted.

Forgiveness does happen between close friends because friendship is more valued than the one night stand that has happened. Women who are close friends and who are broad-minded enough to accept the troubling situation are more likely to do this than men. 

Some men are more likely to press women's buttons or seduce other women when they feel that they need to have someone who they can talk to, have an intimate relationship with or get the chance to have another child with the women they prefer or if their partner refuses to have another child. Seduction is a very tricky subject but some men do have various ways that can seduce women into submission to their sexual needs. Some women who fall prey to this seduction can risk losing their sexual virginity and risk getting pregnant out of wedlock. When this happens the complications occur. Either the wife can sue the mistress, the husband leaves the wife and his children, leaving his family to fend for themselves. The other woman on the other hand might face social discrimination or become depressed because she fell for a man who was only using her as a sexual object with or without her knowing it. 

Women who become mistresses or second wives sometimes may have a difficult time because they do not have the complete legal right to their partners. However, if he does not marry both of his partners, then the children have the right to child support. However, in some situations, one parent usually has to support the children or child. Sometimes, men do not get to give full support to their children so the women have to shoulder the cost of rearing them. But the good thing is that sometimes the children's grandparents, the parent's siblings and their relatives contribute to rearing the child to help the child grow up positively. There are some fathers who take on the role of the mother in case she is the one who left the family. 

Most betrayal between partners should be resolved by communicating and talking about the problem if there is time to do so.  Make time for them if there seems to be none. What is important is to keep the children happy and joyful if possible. Children should feel that they are loved and cared for despite the separation of couples. If possible, the couple on the other hand should talk things out and bury the disagreement and forgive each other.

As for the third party, who was also cheated on, they should perhaps find some time to think about the beautiful things that life has to offer them further. Life just does not stop with cheaters, seducers, opportunists or liars, there are more beautiful things to see and do that perhaps can enrich other people's lives and become a blessing to others who truly matter. The thoughts of the affairs that shouldn't have been maybe haunting, but keep looking at the bright side of things and pursue your dreams. Dream of a more beautiful future for yourself, your family, your friends, your new-found mates and live each day as if it was your last. If your dreams do not happen now or at the moment, they are likely to happen in the future. 

If you were lied to or cheated, it is best to move on and get on with life. Your life does not have to end there. You should go on and move on and find the things that you love to do. Fulfil your destiny and become a unique and pristine beauty in this world. You never know, someone out there is always looking after you and caring for you always like your mom or dad, your siblings, your relatives and your friends who perhaps truly care about you. Be loving to the people who are always by your side, because it is likely that they are the ones who love you the most. Or others, who have come a long way and gone beyond heaven and earth trying to reach you and wanting to be with you.

Unwanted relationships happen sometimes when you least expect them and when you are sometimes most vulnerable. So before you even get into one, think about the consequences of getting into it. If you don't you might regret your actions and hurt yourself in the process. The best way to avoid them is by being cautious. Be friendly, caring and loving but do not get into a position when you are risking your own personal, emotional happiness and well-being. Being a third-wheel in the relationship will not give you happiness or joy, it will only damage your emotional, mental and physical well-being. So try to avoid them, if possible, to not risk your personal happiness.

Having someone to call your partner in life is important, be it a spouse, a loved one, a common-law wife or husband. You help each other out and you get things done together. And when you do get to where you want to be, like being together every day, if you hope to, then these moments matter most. They are the best things to look forward to. They are what is most important and not the things that have transpired in the past. What matters most is that you love each other and that love goes deeper and stronger as time goes by. 

Have a lovely day.