What To Do If You Were Sexually Assaulted or Sexually Molested

There are instances when women get into trouble and become sexually assaulted by men whom they encounter. 

One of the best way to do when someone assaults you sexually is to douche after the sexual assault. Douching means that you should go somewhere to sit to let out the semen that may be inside the vagina. Stand up, go to a bathroom, wash well with water and let the sperm cells out of your vagina in case sexual intercourse happened.  Douching will help avoid you from getting pregnant, especially if you really do not want to get pregnant with the man who sexually assaulted you.

Tell one of your trusted and closest friend about the encounter or ask for their help. Sexual assault is an offence that is punishable by law. Women who are sexually assaulted have the rights to file a case against the offender. Make sure that you report the incident immediately to the authorities (like the police) in your town, for you to be able to get justice for the offence taken against you.

Sexual assault may happen to women in various instances and one way to save yourself from the assault is by not being with men you do not know well alone. Men whom you have met online for a short time without getting to know them well may simply be taking a chance on casual sex, so be careful and be cautious. There are men who cleverly entice women to get them laid and some women fall for it a lot of times. 

If you intend to date someone whom you have recently met, try to get to know them first and do not go with them to places they will take you by yourself, especially if you have just met them. If they really love you, they will wait for the time that you are ready to have that sexual relationship once you are married or have come to an agreement that you will be husband and wife, spouse, a couple or common-law wife or husband or spouse. 

Some women fall for men who are clever at enticing or threatening women for their own whims and these things happen often. Some of their intentions include having more children, satisfying their sexual needs, trying to prove to themselves that they can get the women they want to boast to their peers, boasting of their sexual capacity to produce more children to grow their families and some to show some form of cleverness that the women they have met fell for their trap.

There are clever men who get some women into this trap and some women do fall for them. If you are a woman, who got into these traps, try the options above to avoid unwanted pregnancy and avoid getting into trouble that may be difficult to rectify at times. You may also consult a gynecologist after the sexual assault or encounter to have your body checked for infection of any sexually transmitted disease and have yourself treated, if possible.

If you have been a victim of sexual assault, be more careful the next time you go out with some men. As they say, men have an inherent nature of planting their seeds to help them grow into fruitful beings. Some men have this aggressive nature and some rush into getting laid on the first date. And this is a big turn-off for a lot of women. This could be a sign that they are only trying to get casual sex, and once the revelation happens, women who were sexually molested suffer the consequences.

The best way for women to avoid being sexually assaulted or abused is to be with other women, friends, relatives whom they can trust when they go out with the man who is interested in to get to know you. Try to get to know them well first before, as much as possible, before starting a sexual relationship with them. Avoid being sexually assaulted by having group meetings instead of individual dates. Exclusive dating can happen after getting to know the stage of the relationship.

It is easier to love and be with someone whom you can really trust and truly love because casual sex with someone whom you do not feel any authentic love for will definitely not work. Women who become victims of men seeking casual sex may become depressed after the event, but try to get back on their toes. There are several women who have suffered these incidents but had to endure to get to another tomorrow for themselves and their loved ones.

A sexual encounter with a man who was just seeking casual sex and not seeking a real relationship or simply wanting you to be their mistress is also not ideal. There are several complications that may come in these kinds of relationship because the original or first wife might feel jealousy, envy, or, the other way around. The same goes for the children. There might be rivalry with them, at times and cause tension in the family. There might also be problems with finances because of more mouths to feed, especially if the children are still young and at school age.

If you are singled out, do not go into a hotel room with a man you do not know very well, are not married to yet or is not your loved one, if you want to avoid being sexually assaulted. Do not go out with them to places alone as well, especially if you have just met them. Make sure that they are serious about you. If they are not, remember there are more men out there who are likely more serious in building a relationship with you. Do not go out with them again. Never make the mistake of being fooled again by their sweet-talking, lavish gifts or promises, which they or they may not keep. If they have a  wife, they are likely going to go home to their wife or might ditch you in the end. 

Take care of yourself in the best possible way you can. Since women are said to be physically weaker than men, try to avoid these confrontations as much as possible to prevent these assaults from happening. 

Have a lovely day or night.