What To Do If The Woman Or Man You Love Cannot Commit To You Fully

There are instances when the woman or man you love or have given what you can to make her happy cannot commit to you fully. There may be underlying reasons why he or she may not feel so comfortable about being with you because of memories of previous relationships he or she had had. These relationships may either be pleasant or unpleasant at the same time. These issues may be plaguing him or her which is why he or she may be self-destructing. 

For women, she might be able to snap out of it eventually if she is given some time to himself or herself or if she mingles with other women or gets the chance to make some of her simple or complex dreams come true. If not, you need to ask her what she wants and it might give you a clue on what will make her happy and commit to a relationship with you. If language is an issue, using a common language that you both know may be able to help her solve the emotional turmoil that she may be having. This emotional turmoil may happen especially if she is placed in a new place unknown to her or people with whom she's not familiar. 

There are some women who are easily offended and some are truly not happy when they are forced into sexual intercourse which most consider barbaric. Try to be gentle with the woman you love. Take it slow. Talk things out first, get to know each other and do not rush into sex immediately. Make time for the little things. However, sometimes this is not always possible because of the nature of the work that we may be in. But when you have that chance to have a man or woman who has come a long way to your kingdom, she and her family have taken a risk to be there. Control yourself and let her adjust to her new environment. She will try to learn if she could, if not, she might be able to help you with things that you may not know how to take care of by yourself. She might eventually find her peace once she gets to make some of her dreams come true. 

Some women may totally quit committing to the relationship if they feel tired or impatient to persevere further into a long-lasting relationship or having a family if they see that they will not benefit from it. It is this complex issue that makes the relationship difficult to continue. However, if the relationship is mutually beneficial for both of you, then it might work. Otherwise, you could at least try to find a way to make it work by helping your woman ease her pain. 

She could have lost lives, property or money on her journey to your kingdom, endured terrible oppression from her country just so she can be with you. But then, some women who fail to feel emotional support and connection with a man that they have just met will not feel happy about their current situation, especially if they think that their current situation is not what they have envisioned it to be. This is the time to explain your situation to her.

If you are a simple man living on a minimum wage, let her know gently. Tell her what you can afford to give her. Perhaps she has ideas and can find ways that will make her feel better and make you feel better eventually. Some women do not like being forced to do things that they feel are not pleasing to do or difficult to do because they may not have the skills and were not trained to do these things. Some may not be very good at talking, some may not be very good at conversing, languages or things that you find pleasing as a man, but they definitely have other skills that you may not know yourself. If they are willing to learn new skills, then perhaps you can let her do so and support her in this undertaking.

Preventing suicide for your man or woman is crucial. They do happen and it is very sad and not a memory that we all want. Therefore, be with the woman you love as much as you can so that you will have some memories of each other even just for a brief moment. When you are away, some may feel the danger of being alone and some may feel the isolation. Be with her even just for some time so that you have memories to hold in your mind, memories and heart about the woman who amazed you, made you feel wonderful, gave you the time of your life or gave you the chance to be in her world. However, when one partner is gone, the other half may definitely feel devastated and that can cause another emotional turmoil that may trigger suicidal thoughts again. Family, friends or professionals in the field of relationships should try consoling the devastated partner, if not they might lose a part of their family.

When a part of a family dies, the devastation is in the heart and minds of the people who have felt some form of love for that person, and the grief may last long and linger. This is why some people seek revenge and consider it as a good option for some. Others, see it as not a feasible thing to do to not cause a further problem in the entire community. Or, to save the remaining lives that still exist. Some men and women go to the extent of dying for the sake of their community and family which is truly a suicidal mission that they have taken but they probably saw the chance or some kind of opportunity to do something with the time that they have. 

Men and women are like seeds, when they are apart, they will not grow and blossom into a flowering plant or bear fruit. If they simply fall on the ground and be part of the soil, what good is there for human civilization and the homes built for the locality, community, kingdom or society that you have? However, letting lives wasting away in wars, conflicts, murders and brutality only brings more trouble to the world. One human being lost can be a big loss if you count the costs. Caring for each other is the only way to keep civilizations, societies and families.

If your woman cannot commit fully to you because she might know the danger that lies in the commitment that you want to have with her, do not be suicidal. Take things slow and do not kill each other. Take care of each other as much as you can because the world is a big place, there is a space for everyone. Do not be too greedy because greed might eventually backfire at you. It might even cause terrible pain that will not make you and your loved ones happy. When you are greedy you are risking a whole lot more than you think. 

Love your man or woman despite her or his limitations. She may not be the supermodel of the world that you envisioned her to be. She may not be the beauty queen of your dreams, the superman or superwoman you have dreamt of, a rich billionaire or multimillionaire, she may not be the smartest or the most beautiful girl or man in town but she may be the other half that might make your life complete. Treasure her as you live, even if he or she is far away or simply next door. If you are together in a home, you are most lucky because some men and women have to endure being far apart from each other. So, be thankful if you are together with your loved one or family. 

If it still does not work out as you wanted them to, think happy thoughts. Engage in a hobby that will help you make time pass. At least you are experiencing something new each day, learning something new each day, getting through difficulties each day and making things happen for you and your loved ones each day.

Have a lovely day or night.